What Have I Been Up To?

Hey Guys! Thought I'd do a little..."What We've Been Up To." Life is always a bit crazy. But lately, we've been running at 100MPH. Here goes...

 1. In case you missed it, we announced our "Gifting" for the year...via our Love for Blue Foundation. So proud of this accomplishment! We gifted $3500 to ABQ Youth. And countless cards, notes, and little gifts via Love Caregivers.

 2. We are 100% into the Growers' Markets. Wow! We are so busy! You can see our schedule here. It's different from last year. This year, the arts and craft vendors, rotate weekends. And spots. So I make sure to put all the info, on our Facebook page.

This weekend we'll be at the ABQ Downtown Growers' Market. Spot #91. And the ABQ Rail Yards Market. Spot #22. That's our regular spot. All season long! Hope to see you there!

 3. We started a new Market this week. The Wednesday Lunch Market. It's at Civic Plaza, from 11AM-2PM. Yesterday was Opening Day. We had a lot of fun. It got hot. And for the last hour, all I wanted to do...was jump in the Splash Pad area. With all the kids.

I can't really tell you, when we'll be there. They let us know on Tuesday night...doesn't give much notice. But it's a fun Market! There are a few farmers, some food, lots of crafts, free yoga, some music, the Splash Pad is open, and you can come say Hi!

 4. I started a new blog. After a frustrating celebration. Were the manager, was so racist. And it took everything inside me, to not throw a Toddler Tantrum. No lie! So I started a blog.

If you've followed me, for a number of years...you may remember another food/restaurant blog that I had. It was super successful. I stayed anonymous. And after 5 years, I sold it. That one also started, after a bad experience. When we went to eat at Garcia's. Words are powerful!

Truth be told, I've probably spent more time eating out, in my lifetime...than any other person. I'm not here to bash people/restaurants. But for real...have some respect for your customers!

 5. I'm still looking for a job. Something I was counting on, just didn't pan out. But I'm not letting that get me down. Just got to figure something out.

I need to be able to work a flexible schedule, be somewhat close to home, or only work events. Maybe part-time? I was talking to a friend that runs a Food Truck. And perhaps, during the larger events...I can go help her. Take the orders, keep things stocked, help her setup and tear down.

In case you don't know my situation, I can't go back to work full time. I have to take care of my Momma. Actually, I'm not supposed to leave her alone. But sometimes, I need to. So I need to have the flexibility to continue caring for her. And if she's having a bad week, I need to be able to stay home with her.

 6. I'm working...sorta...with a Farmer Friend. I still do a lot of work with the DOH. Lots to do with their Meal Planning/Cooking Classes. And they needed a farmer. To purchase food from, take kiddos to their farm, and have them come into the office to sell their products.

Well, I wasn't sure who to ask. When I got the request from my boss. But there is a farmer, that lives down the road. I met him at the Market. And he is super sweet. He knows I need some work. And we kinda got into this venture together.

I'm not selling at his Market stand, or working on his farm. But we're working on this venture together. What's that saying..."Scratch my back, and I'll scratch yours." Ya, we are helping each other out.

I know there are other people that I could have turned to. But let's be real. They totally screwed me over. So what's that other saying? "Sleep with one eye open." I'm not that mean. But really? Could you have done me wrong...any worse?

So there you go. I'll be doing weekly field trips to a farm, writing recipes, teaching some classes at the DOH...and let's be real. Probably helping a little at the Market Stand. On my off weeks. Because I need some dinero. Thank You friend! Oh, I'm also going to help my friend get his social media going, for his farm. He has accounts set up. But doesn't really use them. Time to start taking pics of plants, veggies, and anything farm related!

 7. I've been working really hard on our fundraisers. Our Annual Fun Run/Car Show is indefinitely postponed. Our first date was moved, after my Nanie's passing. I just felt, that we needed to pay some respect. Our next date, conflicts with something else. So I'm thinking September. I'll keep you updated.

The Tea Party though...I'm in full swing! August can't come soon enough. We've got a bunch of teapots. I've got a menu planned. Some crafts too. I'm just waiting to 100% secure the location. I'm thinking it will be too hot, to be outside. So I've been talking with a local Community Center.

So here are some of the details. The Tea Party is open to all ages! Grannys, Mommas, Little Girls. We're almost positive, that we are going to charge $25 for adults. And $10 for girls 10 and under. We are encouraging dressing up. I'm thinking of hosting a tea cup exchange. We we'll have our crafts for sale. As well as some affordable jewelry. And perhaps...some tea related items.

And for our Dinner and Dance...planning is also well on it's way. I was hoping to use a friend to cater. But it's looking more and more, like we're going to do the cooking. Because, Hello! This is a fundraiser. I can't pay $20 a plate. And only charge $25. It just doesn't make sense.

I've got the entertainment secure. And I'm still waiting to decide on which location. There are 2, that I have in mind. I've talked to them, drawn up a contract, and done some research. I just need to pull the trigger. Oh, and in case you missed it...this fundraiser will be in October.

To be honest, I'm a little overwhelmed. It's a TON of work. And I'm pretty much, the entire workforce. Ideally, we didn't want all the events so close together. But, it is what it is. Life happened, dates got moved, and here we are.

For 2019, and forward...I hope to have this schedule. The Fun Run Fundraiser/Car Show at the end of April. Our Tea Party at the beginning of August. And our Dinner and Dance...in October. That's our goal!

 8. I'm still waiting on my Driver's License. I went and renewed mine, over a month ago. I still haven't gotten it, in the mail. And I still have 2 weeks, before I can file a complaint. Ugh! That is also the reason, I can't go apply for work. They won't take my paper version...

Because I tried. And my State Work ID, won't cut it. Argh! I just need a job. And eventually, my Driver's License. Does anyone know of any jobs? Watching kids, cooking, whatever...

 9. I'm trying to convince my Mom, to go on vacay. With her sisters. But she feels guilty. Why? Because I've been wanting to go to Disney. And she would be going. I'm trying so hard, to get her to go. I think it would be good for her. Besides, they invited her!

I think my Mom feels guilty, because I'm staying behind. We had already asked my sister to watch our dogs. We were thinking, of going on a Road Trip. And she said yes. But this is different. So I told my Mom, I'd stay home. She can go have some fun. Lay on the beach, spend time with her sisters, and spend a day at Disney.

Because honestly, I've been worried about my Mom. She is struggling. Health wise. And I'm not sure, what's going on. I don't know if it's physical. Or if she's feeling down. Or what is going on. But I just want her to go have some fun!

To be 100% truthful, I am a bit jelly. You know, I was so used to travelling. For work. Other than work, I didn't do too much on these trips. But it was fun, to just go somewhere. Get out of town. See something different.

Oh, and I've been dying to go to Disney. For probably 2 years. I'm a BIG kid at heart! Let's just get that straight. But what can a girl do? I was telling one of my friends. Who happens to be a musician in Disney World. What was his answer? Pack up the dogs, and fly to Orlando. While my Mom is going to be gone for 10 days...he wants me to go hangout in Florida. Hit Disney, go fishing in the Atlantic, and just chill. It sounds like a dream...

10. I started organizing a Crochet Class. I was doing them last year. And the interest dwindled away. But apparently, people want to do it again. I've had a TON of interest. Especially at the Growers' Markets.

This time, I'll be charging. I've realized, my time is worth something too. I was asked to do a class, at a local craft store. The owner is looking to get more traffic into her store. She won't be charging me, until January. It's a pretty good deal. And whatever I charge, will be 100% mine.

I'm thinking $20 a person. $30 if you want me to get your supplies. I think that should be good. Pays for my time. Still makes it affordable, for my potential students. Because I was noticing at JoAnn's and Hobby Lobby, the classes go on sale for $50! Also, I'm still thinking of doing something at the Library again. Maybe the same price. Maybe a little less. Not sure. But I will definitely keep everyone up-to-date.

11.  I started a new venture. I'll be incorporating it into our fundraisers. The hint...$5. I think most people will get it. I can't sell it at the Growers' Markets. Because I didn't make it. But you know, it will help!

12. Anyone want hang out? Do a little Recipe Exchange? Or Dinner Club sort of thing. No lie! Been putting a little something together. I used to do these all the time. When I lived alone. I miss it! So I'm started it all over again. :)

Let me know if you are interested. We can meet once a month. Each person can make a dish. And we can get together to eat. You know, we'd have a theme or something. Or maybe have one person in charge of the meal each month. It really is a fun thing. And is usually about 8-10 people. So it's not too crazy!

I think that's it. For the moment. I mean, we are doing a ton more. But I'm not sure on a lot of the details. And if I can share them yet. So we are going to leave it here. Happy Thursday!

XOXO,
Desiree

Friday Favorites #11

This has been a tough week. Like I wanted to dig a big 'ol hole...and hide in it. Put a rock on top...and forget that I was even there. But I made it. Somehow. And I'm looking forward to this coming week, to be a bit more relaxing. Not so adventurous. Maybe a bit more peaceful. Let's get started with this week's Friday Favorites....

Excuse the bags under my eyes. I have not been sleeping well. For at least 2 weeks now. But it's March. We're over half over with the month. I still can't believe that! But over on our Love For Blue Instagram page, we're rocking the blue! All month. If you'd like to join in posting your blue pictures, on you favorite social media...please tag them with #LoveForBlue #BlueForBlue and #BlueDays.

In case you are new around here, my Dad battled colon cancer. And sadly, lost his battle...nearly 3 years ago. I still can't believe he is gone. But we have a 3 year old foundation that my Dad started, shortly before his death. It's a way to remember him. And continue his work.

Last week, my Nanie (Grandma) became an angel. On Friday, we celebrated her life...with a viewing. Gosh, I'm going to miss this beautiful lady. All her stories. Her wisdom. And her CRAZY jokes!

After my Nanie's viewing, we had a few errands to run. Before her services the next day. After picking up some last minute things, we stopped for a late dinner. At Panda Express. We always get the Big Plate. And a side of fried rice. My Mom and I share it all! It was yummy. Even if I had to stay clear of the beef. Do you give up meat on Fridays too?

So on Friday afternoon, I started this doll. I had dreamt of it, the night before. Pretty much, in one afternoon, I had all the parts made. And Friday night, I stood up, to finish her. Basically, sew her together. And put on her hair.

Now I've made many dolls. In case you are interested, you can find some of my work on our Craft Blog and on our Instagram page. Anyway, it usually takes awhile. Like I spend a few hours putting on the hair. Making my dolls, turn into fun little people. But this doll was so easy to make! My Nanie always told me, if it was meant to be, it will be. 

I couldn't sleep really well on Friday night. So after my Mom went to bed, I finished up this doll. And I kept thinking of my Nanie. I decided to place it in her casket. It just seemed appropriate. Being that she taught me how to crochet. And she always loved the toys I made. So I sent it with her. Along with a note. I just feel, like you should send your loved ones away...with a little something special.

Something I may not have mentioned is...my grandparents wanted their granddaughters to be their pallbearers. What an honor. To get to carry our grandparents to their final resting place. 

And while this was not necessarily a favorite thing of mine. It was truly an honor. It's been just over 4 years, since my Tatie (Grandpa) past on. And on Saturday, we laid my sweet Nanie to rest.

The women in our family, are such strong people. We owe it all, to our grandparents. Yes, we all have parents. But our grandparents instilled wise lessons, manners, strength, faith, and so much more...in us. They wanted us to be strong women. And boy, am I happy to be included in this bunch of women! In case you are wondering, my big littlest sis, is the 4th from the left. :)

It's so hard to admit, that we don't see each other much. But on this day, my Mom, her brothers, and sisters got to be close. And they were able to hold on to each other, on a very tough day. And just in case you were wondering about all the red...it was my Nanie's favorite color! We don't usually wear red to funerals.

It's crazy how life continues to move forward. Whether or not, you are ready for it. We got a bag, with a few things we had given my Nanie. And this picture was in it. I can still remember taking this picture. I was in college. And had come home, for this special occasion.

We actually took a large family picture. Which I never got! The photography shop, never gave us our print. What can you do? But each one of my grandparent's kids, with their family, also got to take some pictures. We did one with just us grandkids too. Awesome memories!

But this picture here, I gave it to my Nanie, right after my Tatie died. And with all her moves, she always took it with her. I was getting ready for Church on Sunday morning. I just had to stop and look at it. I can't believe 3 out of the 5 of us, are now angels...

After Church we headed home, for breakfast. Originally, we had been scheduled to sell at Church. For a Craft Sale. But with everything going on, we took the day off. And made it a pretty lazy day.

That included leftovers. My cousins, on the other side of my family, generously did all the cooking for my Nanie's funeral. And they setup and cleaned up the entire reception for us. They are such a blessing. I've always looked at them...as the sisters and brother, that God intended for me. :) Anyone remember the entire family, waiting with me for the bus? That stopped in front of the house.

Anyway, they are amazing cooks! And we ended up taking a bit of food home. So Sunday morning, my Mom fried up a couple of eggs. Because we all know, I can't make a fried egg. And we had the yummiest red enchiladas! So cheesy. Just like I like them!

If you follow me on Insta, then you have probably seen this product. On Sunday night's I've been trying to do a #SelfCareSunday. Basically, I take time for me. I've managed to do this, every Sunday in 2018. Except last week. When we were with my Nanie.

But this has to be my favorite mask. It's a sheet mask. And it's so relaxing to take a long bath. Then lay down, with this on my face. Catching up, with my favorite YouTubers.

In case you are interested, I get these at Walmart. I want to say that they are $2-3 each. It's basically a sheet, about the thickness of a baby wipe. And it is soaked in the most moisturizing liquid. I have a whole basket of masks. That a friend sent me. But this one, is my favorite.

Another disease, that we like to highlight for our foundation is Epilepsy. My Dad had epilepsy, for over 60 years! He was very embarrassed of this disease. Something that he had almost no control over.

Honestly, he did a pretty good job, controlling it. My Dad went to the doctor once a month. Every month of my life. To have his medication levels checked. He took his medication, twice a day. Every single day. Medicine that helped control his seizures.

Since I was little, I learned how to take care of my Dad. He taught me, when I was about 5 years old...how to put the car into neutral. Just in case. I learned real quick, what to do...when my Dad had a seizure. Call my Mom or Grandma. Lay him on his side. Hold his head. And as I got older, I could care for my Dad, by myself.

It was a tough disease. My Dad would joke with me..."It took my teeth. At times, it takes my dignity. But it will never keep me down."

My Dad lived a pretty normal life. He would have an "episode" about once a year. Two seizures in a day. One in the morning. One in the late afternoon/evening. In the last few years of his life...the seizures changed a bit. But it was more due, to his cancer. Than the epilepsy itself.

Every Monday, we wear purple for epilepsy. It was a disease, that my Dad learned how to live with. We, as his family, learned to live with it too. It wasn't a death sentence. You can join us in wearing purple too. Just tag your pics with #LoveForBlue #PurpleMondays #EpilepsyAwareness

I want people to know, you shouldn't be ashamed, if you have seizures. My Dad was lucky. His disease was pretty well managed. He was able to drive. Medication kept him pretty healthy. Life was pretty normal.

But I know, many people have a hard time. Epilepsy and seizures have such a huge range. In our family, we have a few family members...who battle this disease. Every case is different. Every person, has a different treatment. But they all, live a pretty normal life.

Earlier this week, Sweetheart and I had to run to the store real quick. And we picked up a pizza, for dinner. While sitting at a light, I was just so amazed with the sky!

It just amazes me, how life keeps on. With or without you, the sun still rises and sets. The birds chirp. People still buzz around. 

And in that moment, I had to just stop. And breathe. How glorious is this earth, that we live on. Some weeks, just feel so tough. And impossible. Then God sends you a message, in a beautiful sunset. To remind you, he's on your side!

Remember how I mentioned, struggling with sleep lately? Well, that lead to me finding a new TV show to watch. The Animal Planet's The Zoo. I got so hooked on Tuesday night, that I watched until 4AM Wednesday morning!

It all started with an episode about a flamingo. Who had to have surgery on it's leg! Flamingos are my favorite! So I watched a handful of episodes. And was thoroughly sad, when I couldn't find another episode to watch.

I just know, my Mom is going to be hooked too! It's a behind-the-scenes view, of the Bronx Zoo. Super interesting. I'll admit it here...I cried when an animal died. I think it would be a great show, for all ages! You get to see how the animals are cared for, trained, and what it takes, to really make the Zoo run.

Like I said, it has been a tough week. With tough relationships. And circumstances. When you really begin, to realize...just how strong you are. How each one of those rocks people throw your way, can be something positive too. This quotes sums all of that up, for me. Turn the negatives, into positives.

Wednesday we had another funeral to go to. What a week! But again, it was a good excuse to spend time with family. It really does make me sad, that it takes this kind of event, to bring us together.

But it allowed my Mom and I, to spend time with family. Family we don't see often. Friends that have turned into family. And it made the weight of all these losses, feel a little more bearable. Nothing like laughter, to make that happen!

But in this picture, post funeral, I really wanted to share my jewelry. I owe my love of Native American jewelry to my Nanie. And while I have some really nice pieces, this set just made me smile. My Mom gave it to me for Christmas. And I just love it!

I almost died, while driving home. I realized one earring was missing. And while I was on a race to make it home...I needed the restroom...my heart stopped. I mean, there were countless places in the cemetery where it could have been. We had been to two cemeteries that day! Or at the reception hall. Who knows where?

When we got home, I found it. In the seat of the car. Thank God! I know this set will be on a regular rotation, in my wardrobe. But I need to get some earring backs, before I wear it again. I don't want to lose an earring.

I've also been trying to decorate for every holiday. We have the decorations. I just have been unmotivated. So for New Year's it was one of those things, I put on my list for 2018.

I'm not back to my normal Holiday Spirit. But I'm trying. This shelf in our living room, I think of it as my area to rotate decor. Sorta like someone's mantel. I did a little decorating earlier this week. Added some lights, a sign, and some gold touches.

I also managed to decorate our dining room table. Change out all the linens. Added our St. Patty's day kitchen towels. The other places I added some green touches, are to a buffet in our living room, our coffee table, and my bathroom counter. Nothing too crazy. Just some green vases, pretty spring flowers, and a couple of gold accessories.

The Easter decor, is waiting. Some lambs, crosses, and fun bunnies. I'll probably change that out, on Sunday. The holidays are all jammed together this year. But I'm trying. 

Not long ago, our house would have looked like Hobby Lobby, Hallmark, and Gordman's had all exploded on it. But over the last 2 or 3 years...I just sorta lost that spark. I'm calling this a success.

Lastly, I have this quote. I talked to a friend late last week. A long time, family friend. Really I can almost call her a second mom. And she was helping me, to put things into perspective. 

We don't have to pull people along with us. In our lives. We don't need the negativity or the drama. We need to focus on what's important. Who is important. And why all these things are important.

I think when a family suffers a loss, it makes you rethink so much. Relationships. The daily. What you really want in your life. And who you want. You are not obligated, to tug everyone along...on your journey. And sometimes, it's so important to make those breaks.

Just make a quick, clean break. It hurts less. Eventually, if those people were meant to be in your life, they'll find their way back. If not, you'll find new people, to fill that space. 

Life is full of unpleasant things, experiences, and people. But you shouldn't sit and focus on that. You should focus on the positive. As much as we want all of our family, in our lives, sometimes it's not what is best for us.

That's it...for this week! It's been a tough one. Physically, emotionally, and spiritually draining. I look forward to a much calmer week. We have a fun birthday party tomorrow afternoon. And I'm excited for that! For once, the presents are made, bought, and wrapped up!

I'm also excited to do some "Sweet Making," for our Church Family today. I have some St. Patty's day desserts in mind. And I know, our Fish Dinner will be fun! I just love, hanging out at Church! See you next week!

XOXO,

Desiree

Fall in the Southwest

Fall starts on Friday! I can hear the angels singing! I don't know what it is, about this time of year. I just yearn for it. There is something to be said, for the cooler temps. The comfort of snuggling up on the couch, with a blanket. While watching the familiar faces, of your favorite shows, make a return.

I'm that girl, that yearns for familiar things. The aroma of green chili, hanging in the air. That crisp feeling, when you walk out the door in the morning. The comfort of putting on my grandpa's sweater. 

With all that being said, our temps are still hanging in the high 80s and low 90s. The weatherman made me laugh last night. When he mentioned our Fall like weather on Sunday. 81 degrees. 

But I'm not letting any of that, rain on my parade. I've been dreaming about Fall colors. Warm cups of tea. And all those comfy clothes! There is just something, about putting on an oversized sweater. Or snuggling into your scarf. Oh how I love Fall!

So today, I'm talking about some of my favorite Fall pieces. Some might seem a little odd. Just keep in mind. I live in the southwest. My style often reflects that. And our Fall temps, are quite warm...compared to most!

When I first think of Fall, I think of September. And since I was little, that meant dresses with Cowboy boots. Especially for the State Fair. It's a look, that you can't go wrong with. Obviously, a darker colored dress, would speak more to Fall. But I encourage all of it!

I also feel like heavy lace, is a nice Fall look. I don't know if this speaks to me, because of my upbringing...or because of where I lived in my early 20s. But I see heavy lace pieces as being very "Cowgirl." And September, makes me want dress more in Western style. 

Are you seeing a pattern here? I adore dresses! Especially in the Spring and Fall. I feel like they are nice transitional pieces. You can dress them up or down. Add a sweater or a boot. These Chambray pieces, our my favorite! 

So our these booties. I LOVE a nice boot. But I feel like Booties speak more to me, in the Fall. The color of this pair, is absolutely perfect! And Booties are so fun, to mix into your wardrobe. I love to pair them with skinny jeans, and a thin sweater. Or a fun dress.

But my "basic Fall uniform," is much closer to this. A pair of boots. Riding boots, Cowboy boots, anything that is tall. A pair of fun colored jeans. Or a dark wash. A nice blouse. With some sort of cardigan and scarf. All day. Every single day! Fall all day long! 

I also find, this is when I reach for my makeup and jewelry more. I feel like it's time, to put the effort in again. Am I strange? Summer is just too tough. I feel like Summer, is all about low maintence. I don't want to be worrying about makeup and jewelry. Especially since you literally break into a sweat...going to get your mail. In your front yard!

In my circle of friends, I'm known for wearing mustard. Mustard everything and anything. I also like to refer to it, as baby poop. It really is one of my favorite colors to wear. I may own 3 or more, pairs of mustard jeans. A handful of sweaters. And who knows how many scarves!

I just feel like mustard is a good transitional color. It's a toned down version...of the bright yellow of Summer. And it's prepping us, for all the burnt orange, that is on the way. Oh how I love mustard!

Here we are with the boots again. Oh, how I love a cognac boot! And a stripe. Have I mentioned the mustard scarf? Or the big 'ol comfy sweater? I'm telling you, I love an oversized sweater!

A boyfriend sweater, is my favorite Fall accessory. I have an old sweater, that was my Grandpa's. Hands down, my favorite item of clothing, to pull on when it's cool outside!

Let's talk leopard. It shouldn't be a shock to anyone that knows me. But leopard is my favorite print! Way past floral or damask. I LOVE leopard! My poor dog, also has to endure my love of leopard. In her short life...she's had about 10 leopard outfits. :)

I feel like a leopard scarf, is a nice way, to add a little something to a basic outfit. And like I was saying, I feel like Fall is when I begin to "care" again. It's kind of like a bow on a present. Not necessary. But oh so nice!

I also adore a military jacket. There's just something about the cut and color, that I feel like, screams Fall! The feminity of the leopard scarf, and the masculinity of the militarty jacket...are a perfect balance!

There are my favorite booties again! Oh, I do love a nice bootie. But this is more about the color burgundy. I like a rich color. Especially in Fall. Right here, these pieces are just screaming Fall to me. 

I'm always drawn to burgundy. It was one of my school colors in college. But I just adore the richness of the color. The way some people are drawn to red in the Winter/Holiday Season. I'm drawn to burgundy in the Fall. 

Like I said, I live in the southwest. And that has always influenced my style of dress. Maybe in high school, it wasn't appreciated. But as I've gotten older, I've gotten a lot more comfortable with it.

Items like a blanket cardigan or a moccassin boot, are not new to me. They're not a trendy item. It's something I've been wearing my entire life! So when I started to see more and more people wearing these items, it got me all excited!

I guess you could wear these pieces all year long. But I feel like, around here...it's just too hot. I'm not going to lie here. I may have pulled out such items last week. And sported them to the State Fair. But when paired with basic jeans and a white T-shirt...it just works! 

The boots went well with the outfit. And in the evening, when the temps started to drop...the cardigan was a nice addition. It speaks to my roots. And my style. 

An outfit like this, just speaks to my roots. It's something, I have been known, to wear often. Simple. Easy. Southwestern. Lace and leather. Moccassins and jeans. Throw in a little Cowgirl. How could this not be Fall?

Another one of those easy looks for Fall. Gingham checks. And thin sweaters. Lots of layering. And maybe a nod, to your school colors. Or favorite sports team. This is the perfect tailgating outfit. You know, without looking like you should be part of the team.

I was once a cheerleader. And noticed just how close, some fans can get...to looking like the team. This is still a nice "put together" look, without looking like you should be passing out Gatorade.

When I see an outfit like this, I just think Fall. It's easy. Not fusy. Ready for exploring Pumpkin Patches, Tailgating fun, and wondering through the State Fair. There are layers. And more Earthy colors. It's just ready for Fall!

I also start thinking about hair. Being that I spend the entire Summer, with mine piled high on my head. I think of lots of braids and texture. Much like this hairstyle.

And although this is very much a Summer picture, the hairstyle is very much for Fall. Something messy. Effortless. And super easy.

Like I said before, I start pulling out all my jewelry in Fall. And I'm most drawn to bronze. Something about all the Earth tones, makes me think of bronze and antique gold. The richness of the metal, pairs well with the rich colors of Fall!

And being a gal of the Southwest, Native American jewelry has a soft spot in my heart. I feel like any outfit can be dressed up, with a splash of turquoise. Or coral! And I find that these heavy pieces, work best in the Fall!

I hope you enjoyed my look into Fall fashion. It's a real world take. I won't be sporting things on the Runways. It's more about easy, comfort, and a nod to my roots. Fall is easily my favorite season for fashion. The mixes of texture, color, and natural fibers. I honestly love it all!

XOXO,

Desiree

Friday Favorites

Happy Friday! Can't believe it's already that time again. Is it me, or did this week just fly by? We had a jam packed week. So many things to do...and literally, so little time to do it all!

So I'm linking up with Andrea, for this week's Friday Favorites. Most of which, revolve around going to the State Fair. Which is ALWAYS a favorite of my family!

 1. Fall Hats! The temps, are slowly coming down. The mornings are crisp. And I know...Fall is just around the corner! So I've been working on hats for our shop. It's something I hadn't done in a while. And we were in desperate need, of cute hats. Animals hats are one of our biggest sellers.

But more specific, I've been in love with the Fall hats. I've made pumpkins, apples, and this little candy corn. I have plans for witches, Frankenstein, ghost, spiders, and turkeys!

Yup, they are just fun. And all week, I've been making beanies. I'm hoping to sit down today, and sew on their little faces. They are absolutely precious! Last week, I made about 10. This week, I should have another 10. 

 2. Mason Jar Flowers! Our Growers' Market neighbors came back this week. It was so nice to see them. Tita and her mom are the sweetest. And they make the most precious flower arrangements. I swear, if I ever get married...or have a Baby Shower, I'm using Mason Jar Flowers. :)

My Momma and I were talking. About how close we all get. At the Market. We really do become, a little family. And it truly is, one of the best things! When you don't see each other...you really do miss one another.

What are we going to do when the season ends? I say this, knowing we have just over a month left. Essentially, we've spent the last 5 months with everyone. It's going to make for a long "Off Season."

 3. Avalos Wedding. My cousins have been married for a handful of years. And on Saturday, they were married by the Church. We missed the ceremony, because we were at the Growers' Market. And because the wedding was about a 30 minute drive. The reception, followed. In a neighboring town, like 4 hours later.

Due to my Momma's health, we decided to stay in town. Until the dinner. Which worked out well. My Momma wasn't feeling too great that day. And maybe not everyone understood...it was just what we needed to do.

I took a bunch of pictures. And videos. So did one of my cousins. But I wasn't able to grab one off of Facebook or Instagram. Isn't that crazy? So I found this picture. From a few years back...during the Dia de los Muertos Parade. 

 4. Tin Lizzies of Albuquerque. We went to the State Fair on Sunday. It was one of those "touch and go" kind of days. While we didn't stay at the wedding really late, the night before, we were exhausted! And ended up sleeping until just after 9AM. There was a mad dash, to shower and get to Church.

Then we weren't sure what we were going to do. Originally we had planned for a day at the Fair. But my Momma was tired. So we relaxed at home. Until my Mom realized our Car Club was at the Fair. We made a mad dash, and managed to get there...about an hour before they left. It was really nice to catch up with everyone. To see the cars. And the smiling faces.

My Mom and I are always wanting to become more involved in our Car Club. But there just doesn't seem to be enough time. Hopefully, when the Growers' Market Season ends...we'll make some time. I'm ready for some more driving lessons!

 5. Leather Art. After we left the Tin Lizzies, we decided to walk around. To make it easier for my Momma, I took the wheelchair. So she could just enjoy herself. We headed to the Hobby Building. One of her favorites! And we probably spent, about 2 hours in there!

We looked at so many things. Got invited to join our local Crochet Guild. Looked at Coin Collections, like my Dad's. My Mom was interested in some beautiful furniture, that had been handmade. And then, I turned around and saw this piece.

Gorgeous! Made all out of leather. I'm still not sure, why it didn't win a ribbon. Because it really was beautiful. All the counties, had some sort of picture. Something relative, to the county. Loved it!

 6.  Asbury Pie! And in true fashion of my family...there was pie! Asbury pie to be exact! It has become a "Family Tradition" of sorts. My parents, started going to the Asbury Cafe, when they first started dating. They would share a piece of pie and ice cream.

From then on, every year that we've gone to the Fair, we get pie. Pie and ice cream! Yum! This year, I got a piece of raspberry peach. It was delicious! And it was nice, to sit and chat with my Momma. Eating our pie. Watching all the people walk around.

Most of all, thinking of my Dad. We both still miss him...so very much! And it's little things like this, that make our hearts sing. When you can remember him, being so happy! We finished our day...listening to music in the Spanish Village. Our friends to be exact. Laughing at all the crazy people. And 5 hours later, we headed home!

 7. That Face! Oh my goodness! This pup, makes her Momma's heart sing! Earlier this week, we were sitting on the couch. And she was just looking up at me. All innocent. Wanting some love and attention.

She LOVES to be read to. And for me to talk to her. Even sing to her. The whole time, that little head of hers...moves back and forth. Like a toy! And my heart melts! Who couldn't love this precious babe!

I've been questioning myself...why I didn't get 2. You know, when I got Belle. But I do plan, on getting another puppy like her...later this Fall. Another girl. I just have to dig out the phone number. And hope the people still have pups!

 8. Fall Magazines. I started getting Fall magazines this week. What a happy surprise, in the mailbox! As much as I LOVE Spring...it's my favorite time of year, I just adore Fall!

Something about the smells, the change of weather, the comfort. When the green chili starts roasting, I start smiling. I know the seasons are about to change! I start thinking of Fall decor. Yummy candles. All the things I can bake. The soups. And the sweaters!

Can you tell how excited I am? Oh, and my 2 favorite holidays are in Fall. Halloween and Thanksgiving! Y'all, I'm trying to contain myself! I don't want my Mom to freak out, when I drag out all the Fall decorations. And the one morning, when she wakes up to 10 candles burning. Because I might have already come home, with some mums!

 9. Lunch Dates with my Momma. It's been a while, since my Mom and I have been to the Casino. For lunch. And we were thinking about it last week. So we made a plan. And although the week had been busy, we were sticking to our plans. Because we thought, we were going to have a crazier week. A friend of ours, was supposed to go out of town. And we were going to help his girls, sell his produce all week. Those plans changed...more on that later.

On Tuesday, we decided to go have some lunch. I charged up all my electronics. And decided I get some work done. While my Momma gambled a bit. She had some free play. Then we sat down, to a late lunch.

Yum! That's all I can say. From the salad and soup...to the prime rib. It was all so good! We ate incredibly slow. And just enjoyed it. Talking. Really catching up. Although we live together...and spend so much time together, sometimes we just don't get to really talk.

Tuesday, we did just that. We went over schedules. Shows we'll be doing this Holiday Season. We talked about her going to Washington DC. Made plans for Thanksgiving...that just might include a stay at a hotel. And dinner already cooked. Because really, who wants to cook for 2?

We talked about our pups, family, and plans for the winter. It was just nice, to chat. We even looked up some projects, that we want to tackle. And I may have mentioned, a Part-Time job. I was supposed to be working for another friend this week, but that didn't work out. And I'm thinking a night time job, would be a good fit.

10. Wise Words. And like every other time, we got Fortune Cookies. And this was my fortune. Wise words, don't you think? My Mom's wasn't quite so good. 

I wish I could scream this, from the rooftops. Maybe print it on T-shirts. At least I could post it on Instagram and the 'ol blog. But really, these are words to live by.

And I wish some people, would just get it. Give. Just a little. Everyone, has something to give. And in light, of the recent hurricanes and earthquake...we should see the need for giving.

11. What's in Your Bag? These posts are truly my favorite! Maybe I'm just nosy as heck! But I LOVE to read these kind of posts. Watching Youtube videos, of the same subject...just might be my favorite thing ever!

In case you missed my post, you can find it here. And you can find the link up here. I might have spend, 2 hours reading a bunch of new blogs. And looking into people's bags. No lie!

Then I might have spent another 2 hours, watching YouTube videos. Am I the only one? I think I just might be nosy.

12. Jamaica Tea. This just might be my favorite...from the week! Might as well, put the heart eyed emoji over my face. That is how I feel about Jamaica tea. Also known as, hibiscus tea.

When I went to college, I was introduced to it. My teacher/friend/away from home Dad would bring me a cup. Once a week. By the end of my freshmen year, I was addicted to this stuff!

So before breaking for the Summer, he gave me a bag. By the end of June, I was calling him. To find out, where I could buy it. Mind you, we were probably on day 30...of triple digit weather! And I had no AC. 

I drank it all the time. And G, got me so spoiled! I add nothing to it. It needs, absolutely, nothing in it. I tried it once, with honey. But honestly, prefer it plain. No sugar. Nothing.

When I moved back to my hometown, I might have brought 5 bags. And as my stock, started to diminish, I went looking for it. May have called, 5 of my friends from Mexico. A handful of musicians. And about 10 Mexican Grocery stores. But I found it!

And honestly, never looked back. Until, recently. When I went to buy some more. That store, about a year ago...changed names. And now, I can't find it. I happened to mention it to my friend Tino. Who makes aguas frescas.

The Watermelon Hibiscus, just happens to be my favorite. And he told me to try a particular store. This was on Saturday. When he told us, he'd be out of town for a week. And could we help out his girls, at their various stands. Sure. We made plans. And told him to have fun, in Vegas. 

So Wednesday, when we pulled into the VA, and saw Tino...we were shocked! His plans changed. And he wasn't going on his trip. Good and bad. I felt bad, because he was looking forward to his trip. But good, because we would get to hangout all week.

Bonus, this bag of Jamaica tea! I might have skipped to my car. And the moment we got home, made a big 'ol cup. That was after lunch, with Tino, his girls, and my Momma. They really feel like family. I'm so grateful to God, that he sent these amazing people, into our lives! 

13. Gold Jewelry. I don't wear a lot of gold jewelry. Who the heck are we kidding, I don't wear a lot of jewelry anymore. There was once a time, when I cared about such things. You know, full face of makeup. Hair perfectly straight, with the slightest of curl, at the bottom. My clothes, were well thought out. I ALWAYS wore high heels. And jewelry.

Then my Dad got sick. And I became a caregiver. And my priorities changed. Wednesday morning, I just felt like putting a little extra...into my appearance. Earrings and ring. A nicer top than usual. Jeans...because I live in leggings and sweatpants! My favorite boots. Heck, I even shocked myself! Lipstick and mascara. Eyelashes curled, and everything!

It was just a nice change of pace. Honestly, I've been wearing a little bit more makeup this week. But it's felt nice. I may have also, straightened my hair twice. In one week! I know, it's probably going to snow. But maybe, that old spark is coming back...

14. Asian Salad. On Wednesday, I wasn't feeling the best. I didn't sleep the entire night before. And I really, was thinking of staying home from the Growers' Market. But I had told Tino, I'd help at his stand. He was supposed to be leaving on his trip. 

Once we got to the Market, and realized he would be there all day...all I could think of, was a nap. I wasn't feeling good. My back hurt. I'd had about 30 minutes of sleep. And I hadn't eaten a thing! It was going to be a long day!

And although I enjoy the company, of the VA Growers' Market...I wanted to be home. We still managed to have a good time. Briana was there. Which meant, I didn't have to help as much as normal. And the Market was incredibly slow!

So when the mention of going out to lunch started, I silently hoped, they wouldn't notice...if we went home. We packed up. Chatted with friends. Then I got trapped in, and had to wait it out in the car. But when our friends came to invite us to lunch...I couldn't say no.

We went out, to Saggio's. First time for us. And honestly, I'm glad we went. After my Hanger, was taken care of...I felt better. And we enjoyed lunch. The portions were HUGE! And since I was in a serious state of Hanger...and pain, I forgot to take pre-meal pictures. Bad blogger here!

My Mom and I, each got a piece of pepperoni mushroom pizza. It was so good! I even managed to get a bubble piece. Those are my favorite! And we split an Asian salad. That was gigantic! But boy 'o boy, it was delish!

After lunch, we headed home. The minute I hit the couch...I was out! I think I slept for about 6 hours. Maybe longer. I was in a food coma, hurting, and way past exhausted. When I woke up, my Mom was asleep. The pups were with her. And I was starving. I hit the fridge, and found the rest of our salad. And about a third of my pizza. Dinner at 11PM? Yes!

I keep thinking of that salad! In fact, I finished it off for breakfast yesterday. It was that good. And then I took to Google, to look for a good dressing recipe. Because I want to make a big salad for me!

And Saggio's...it was super yummy! I keep thinking to myself, when can we go back. I want to try another salad. I guess that is what happens, when you go to college in another city. You don't know about all these places. 

15. Strawberry Bars. Heck ya! Give them all to me. I used to eat these. A while back. And then, I sort of forgot about them. It was one of those things, I used to buy for my Dad. He really enjoyed them.

The other night, I was watching a YouTube video...where they mentioned these strawberry bars. So I bought some. They sat in the freezer, for over a week. And yesterday, while I was putting our freezer packs, in the freezer...I saw them. I literally, stopped everything. To sit down and have one.

Oh my Heaven! It was so yummy! I might not be able to share...with anyone. While the pups, had a bone. They kept coming over to me. They wanted some. Those crazy dogs! After I ate it. I let them both, take a couple of licks...of the stick. These are just too good to share!

That's it for this week. We have a busy day ahead. Finishing up some orders for tomorrow. And some other items, we have planned. Maybe an afternoon at the Fair. And tomorrow...we have the Downtown Grower's Market. Maybe a Crochet Guild meeting. 

Sunday...another afternoon at the Fair. Since we didn't go last night. I managed to buy a pack of tickets...in June. 4 for $12? And they give you 2 more, for free. To be honest, I almost sold them. Because I was supposed to work at a booth, with some friends. At the Fair! It didn't work out...and it might be a good thing. My Mom gets to enjoy some more time at the Fair. Happy Friday!

XOXO,

Desiree