Friday Favorites

Happy Friday Y'all! It was another super tough week for me. I just can't get over this bug. Since I got my flu shot...back in September? I've been sick. Saturday started things for me again. And by Sunday night, I was ready to dig a hole. Turns out...in the last 10 days or so, I've tested positive for the flu, strep, and 2 ear infections. Ugh!

But somehow, we've made it to Friday. And I'm so relieved! I'm also feeling better. Knock on wood! I hope things continue this upward movement. So let's get started with my Friday Favorites!

 1. Yarn Sales. Last Friday, my Mom was dying to head over to Joann's. They were having a really good sale. Both Belle and I, were under the weather. But by 2PM, I had managed a shower. And we were on our way!

We were in the store about 2 hours. While my Mom shopped for fabric, I loaded pics on our Insta. The lines were kinda crazy...for cutting fabric. So I went to check out the yarn. Because it was on a major SALE! I got lost here...for at least an hour. It was like Heaven!!!

And after all the craft supplies shenanigans...we went to dinner. We thought about going to visit a friend. Who works at Chili's. But I just didn't have it in me. So we ended up, at Furr's. Equally as yummy. And I only had to drive across the parking lot!

 2. Hobby Lobby. Saturday we had a Craft Show. And left our house around 5:30AM. To be there by 6AM. I had a good time. We had a good day in sales. But it was a looong day! We were setup by 7:30AM. And saw a bunch of our friends. Including Landis...he could easily be my fav of the week. Except I didn't snap any pics.

We also met, an amazing group of ladies. That had us laughing, the entire time we were there. It's always a good thing, to be surrounded by fun people. These shows can be looong! Total bonus, someone may have slipped my Momma a nice little bottle of something, something...on our way out! :)

By 3PM, when Tino rolled in, I was ready for a nap. Honestly, I was counting down to the magical hour of 4PM. When we could close our booth and pack up. I was grateful that Tino came to help us load up. I think it took 10 minutes. The Craft Show was OK. Not as amazing as everyone talked about. But like I said, we got to see some friends.

You would have thought, we would have gone straight home. But nah. We needed some stuffing. And Hobby Lobby wasn't that far. So that's where we went. My Momma stayed in the car. And I was only going for stuffing...

Then I met the yarn aisle. And saw the signs for a sale. Had me sold. Honestly, I needed to pick up a few things, for an order. So it wasn't that bad. How can you tell the Yarn Aisle no?

 3. Beautiful Bits And Bobs. So while I was making my way out, I ran into this display. And you know what? If I was living alone, I probably would have dropped $500. Right then and there. Never blinking an eyelash.

Because everything was so cute! If you follow me on Insta, you saw a cute mug. Honestly, it's been on my mind ever since! That pineapple. Oh my! It had my heart, doing little flips. Why didn't I buy it?

Anyone wondering what to get me for Christmas. Just head to Hobby Lobby. Check out this display. Pick something. I'll be over the moon!!! Pineapples, pink, and polka dots!!!

 4. Red, Rojo, Ruby, Amor, Bear. I'm smitten. Like a kitten! With Red. Her name...not so much! But she has definitely become my buddy. Meanwhile, we're trying out names. I can call her anything at all, and she comes running.

Sunday morning, I woke up feeling pretty bad. To be honest, when we got home on Saturday night, around 7PM, I fell asleep. And slept hard. Last week, we missed church. When I was delirious from not feeling well. This week, I could have easily gone back to bed. But I managed to make it to church.

We came home, and I hung out with Red. Tried to work on an order. And then, ended up taking a nap. I woke up in a bit of a rush! Because we had another gig...

 5. Latinas in the Arts. So on Sunday afternoon/evening, we went to a Latinas in the Arts event. This was our view. After a kinda long setup, we had this amazing view! Just off the patio. 

And we got to meet so many amazing people. I just wish, I had been feeling better. I had to make a little speech about our business and foundation. And I know...most people couldn't hear me. I was really getting sick.

But it was such an enjoyable evening. I feel so blessed, to be a Chicana. And working in the arts. I also came to realize that our business is in it's 17th year! Our foundation, is also approaching year #3!!!

 6. Yummy Grub! At the brewing, we were hungry. Not so much me. More my Momma. So we shared a Cubano Panini. It was really good. Even if my throat was killing me. Those chips...so good! Wish I had some right now.

 7. Baby Belle. Monday was real slow in our house. I don't think we all got rolling, until nearly 11AM. We were hurtin'!!! None of us really picked up. And I was 95% sure, this girl was going to have to go to the Vet.

She got some sort of cut or bite on her little arm. My Mom and I cleaned it up. And the 2 of us, spent the day napping on the couch. It was rough! My throat was also on fire. And so incredibly swollen!!!

By dinner time, the 2 of us, barely had any energy. But we made it out, to grab my Momma some dinner. This girl, no matter what is going on, is ready for a ride. We jammed a little in the car. She LOVES her some music! And we went back home, to sleep. :)

 8. Pupsky Pies. In case you are wondering, yes these are dog pies. No I didn't bake them. They are actually, the only thing I bought on Saturday. At the Craft Show. I was so out of it. But had promised our pups a treat.

So I cut up one of our four pies. Because I got a really good deal on these little guys. And you know what? Only Red liked them. What the heck?!?!?! Our dogs LOVE treats. But no one would eat this pie.

Oh well. I think Belle just wasn't feeling well. She actually had a really tough night, on Monday. But Red, licked every bite away. Sweetheart...who knows! I froze the other 3 pies. And we'll try it again. Maybe tonight. 

 9. Hodges Half Dozen. I woke up Tuesday, feeling like a truck had run me over. But I couldn't sleep. Mostly, because I couldn't breathe. But peeps, I was exhausted. So I turned on the TV. And Red curled up with me. To watch the first 2 episodes of Hodges Half Dozen.

If y'all know me at all, I'm a sucker for these kinds of shows. Anything having to do with multiple children, any show on TLC, or any reality show honestly...I love 'em all! This show didn't disappoint. Not one bit!

In short, Liz is a nurse. Daniel is in medical school. They have one son...and then bam! They have 5 little babes! I know, I'm already in love with this sweet fam! They just seem so wholesome...and it's an easy kind of watch. Not to mention, I'm always interested to see how parents handle this many kiddos!

10. Honey and Lemon. For the last 2 weeks or so...I've been drinking honey and lemon...with hot water. It helps a lot. It's something I've done, since I started singing. But this week especially, I've needed my favorite miracle.

Total bonus, this local honey. I NEEDED this so bad! It's a really dark and rich color. And taste. I can definitely tell the difference. And I'm keeping my fingers crossed, that I find the honey lady again. And soon! Because that 1lb bottle, is nearly empty.

In case you are feeling under the weather, or have a sore throat, try this. Juice one lemon in a mug. Add an equal amount of honey. And fill the mug with hot water. It's kind of bitter tasting. You can always add more honey. But I find the more lemon-y that it is...the better for your throat. And in case you are wondering...I'm not a big lemon person. I prefer lime. But this is a miracle worker!

11. Crochet Magazines. So while I was resting on Tuesday, my Mom brought me a snack and magazine. It took me a while to get to it. Because It was a rough day. That cupcake, is still sitting on the counter. Waiting for me.

But this magazine, is incredible! I want to make everything inside. Before our next show. There is a gorgeous angel. These little bears, just made my heart sing! That snowman on the cover, is so cute too!

I've seen these magazines before. But never bought any. Now I want to get a sub. They have such cute patterns inside. A little pricey. But I think they are totally worth it!

12. Juice and Sprite. I know, you probably think I'm nuts! I know. But I've been doing this forever! I mean FOREVER!!! I mix half juice and half Sprite or 7UP. And drink it. It keeps me hydrated. And helps give me some calories. I only do it, when I'm sick. I know, there is a lot of sugar involved. But when you aren't eating much, it helps. A LOT!!!

13. Farm Fresh Pumpkins! Yes friends, that is one HUGE pumpkin. And we decided to cook it up, on Wednesday. It had been sitting on our counter since mid October. Waiting for this day. Poor guy, gave his life...for pumpkin pies.

Tino gave us this pumpkin. And my Momma had been wanting to make pies. We just hadn't had time. It took 2 HUGE stock pots, and nearly all day. Because I had fallen asleep, my Momma did it her way. Me? Well, I would have cut this guy in half. And thrown it on a cooking sheet. Set the oven to 300*F. And let it bake.

Either way, it was yummy. I had a bowl, with a little milk and cinnamon. So stinkin' good. Wish I would have gotten 2 pumpkins. Or a banana sqaush. Maybe I should send Tino a message. Darn this pumpkin had a yummy taste!

14. Thankful! Super thankful for this babe! She is my life. And my light. Even if in my heart, I still want 2 or 3 babes. This girl, has filled my life with joy, love, and happiness.

I still struggle on the daily. Since losing my Dad. Especially during the holidays. I guess I just feel, torn. I'm in the middle of 2 stages of life. And I'm learning how to find peace. Most of all, I'm learning grace.

I wouldn't change a whole lot in my life. Not right now. Other than missing my Daddy. But I'm grateful for this time with my Momma. And her crazy pups. And this sweet girl. Thanksgiving was definitely different for us. But it was a good sort of different. Meanwhile, I want another pup. Like Miss Bell. I've even picked out a name...

15. Thanksgiving. We definitely had a different kind of holiday this year. Originally, my Momma and I had planned to go to the Casino. Rent a room, eat dinner, just take a break from everything. And then our plans changed. A friend suggested other things. And then plans changed again...

In the end, it was different. Not bad. Just different. I really enjoyed our dessert. And enjoyed not having to do dishes...or wake up at 4AM to cook. But waking up today, I do miss the leftovers. What the heck is Thanksgiving without leftovers?

It could also be, that I've been under the weather. For what seems like forever! Next year, I promise to make it better. Even if I just cook a turkey breast, and baby ham. Maybe I'll invite Mr. George over too. He looked so sad in church, yesterday morning. 

I've met all these elderly folks. In the last year, we've gotten so close. Because I started to go to daily mass again. And when the holidays come, I realize just how lonely they are. I'm grateful to have my Momma. And to be able to spend this time with her.

Because I know, so many people who are alone. Who knows, I might even go all out next year. To invite our dear friends. We will be THAT house. And it will be such a blessing!

So folks, that was our week. Mostly filled with sickness. But also filled with gratitude. And grace. I hope everyone had a blessed holiday! I'm off, to get some rest. Snuggle a pup or two. And see if I have to be at the Growers' Market tomorrow.

XOXO,
Desiree

Friday Favorites

Happy Friday! This has been a FULL week. I also have to admit...I haven't been the best at taking pictures. There is so much life to live. That sometimes, snapping a pic, is too much! So I may have stolen a few...from Facebook. :)

No matter what, I've enjoyed this week. Lots of family time. Lots of smiles, laughs, and celebrating. I don't think, you could ask for anything else! Let's get started with this week's Friday Favorites!

 1. September Girls' Night. We barely snuck this one in. But I'm so glad we did. I truly enjoy, spending time with my family. And a monthly Girls' Night? You can't go wrong with that!

We had a few new faces. And a few less. But it was a fun night. I'm so glad, my sister could make it. I don't think many, knew her before. And Jeannette, seemed to really enjoy herself.

It's just a fun night, to get together. Have fun. Play a few games. Eat. And laugh. A LOT! It's just a different environment, from our usual. No one has to worry about hungry or tired kiddos. Hosting a party. Or anything like that. It's just time for fun.

I'd been dropping hints on Facebook...for well over a year. Trying to get some of us together. A Recipe Club. Supper Club. Let's just Get Together Club. My friends and I, used to do this all the time! ALL. THE. TIME!!! Sometimes, it was nothing more than meeting at Starbucks. Mostly it was time for my girlfriends to get away from their hubbys and kiddos. And for me? I needed a break from the hospital.

So I was very glad, when my cousin organized all the shenanigans for us. We've met 3 months in a row. And each time has been a little different. Different faces come every time. It's just a nice night out. My only complaint this month...I lost my ID. And couldn't watch the Karaoke Shenanigans. Oh well...

 2. Yummy Burgers. On Friday Night. AKA Girls' Night. I got the yummiest burger. For anyone that knows me, knows that burgers have a soft spot in my heart. Also, I'm always a little skeptical, about trying a new restaurant. And who can screw up a burger?

Anyway, I got a guacamole burger. Two of my favorites...rolled into one. Bonus, it came with bacon. What? Ya, it was a nice little treat. And honestly, I'm sorta anxious to go again. You know, to get another. :)

From the group, they said the food was really good. My Mom got enchiladas. My sister got some sort of burrito. But my burger, I truly think it was the winner. My sister was still talking about it on Sunday.

 3. Saturday Morning Shenanigans. I LOVE Saturday mornings! We get to hang out with our Growers' Market family. And although the weather was overcast. With rain and thunder threatening. ALL. MORNING. LONG! I just enjoy being at the Market.

The little guy on the swing, is our Market Neighbor. The sweetest little guy! His momma made that swing. She make the most amazing wooden toys and cutting boards. And all the kiddos know, to come to this tree. To play on the swing.

My little buddy here, was the sunshine of our day. It sprinkled on and off all morning. Until the big storm hit around 10AM. This guy, just kept on swinging. Smiling away. Waving to me, from across the sidewalk. What am I going to do, when the Market ends?

 4. Smurf Birthday Party. After we left the Market early, on Saturday...we headed to JoAnns. I know! But we were in the area. And had about an hour to waste...before my cousins' Smurf Birthday party.

It was the cutest Birthday party! All the food was so yummy. Those cupcakes...yum! I wonder where they got them. The company was great. It was just a really nice way to spend our afternoon.

I got quite a few questions on Inst. And I don't really have any answers. My cousin planned this party, for her girls. And I'm not sure where she got her decorations. Or how she made a lot of the stuff. But it was super cute! Happy Birthday Amorae and Myla!

 5. Sunday Family Time. We had so much planned on Sunday. And we were exhausted. I think in the end, my Mom and I planned to go to church and breakfast with my sister. But our plans changed. We still went to church. And had a yummy breakfast with my sister. But we also went to the graveyard. And to my cousin's fundraiser.

Basically, I think my Mom just toughed it out. Because my Grandma was going to be there. And I know my Momma was hurting on Sunday. But it was so nice to see my Grandma. During the season, we are so busy. And unfortunately, visiting my Grandma...falls a little off of our radar.

But Sunday was a fun day. I got to chat with my cousins. And a good friend. Got to get lots of time, with her littles. Which is ALWAYS a bonus! And we got to support a good cause.

 6. Vet Time. After our weekend shenanigans, we went home. To our furry pals. Bathed them. And prepped them both, for a day at the vet. Ugh! It's so hard to send them away...

Belle had to have anesthesia. To clean her teeth. And Sweetheart was going for a Comprehensive Exam. If you have a dog, I'd totally recommend getting the Banfield plan. After the first visit, it pays for itself. 

What I like about them is, they assign you one vet. You know how you have a doctor? They get a vet. So all of your scheduled appointments, are with that vet. You get to know them. So does your dog. And they get to know you and your furry friend. 

I also enjoy, that they take care of everything! EVERYTHING!!! I set up my account, to have the payment taken out monthly. The staff schedules appointments. Sends me reminders. Calls before the appointment. To make sure we know what is going on. And if we have to prep our girls. After the appointment, they call for about 3 days. To check on your pet.

It is awesome. If you follow on Inst, you saw how excited our dogs were, to go to the vet. They LOVE it! We dropped them off at 7:30AM. By 9AM, they called to let me know Sweetheart had an ear infection. And Belle was recovering. We picked them up by 2PM. 

 7. Recovery Time. Tuesday was all about recovery. In our house. Monday evening was full of fun. Sweetheart wouldn't take an oral med at the vet. So I had to give it to her. There may have been 5 treats involved...but she finally took it!

Belle's little leg, was bleeding. So they tied it a little tighter. And told me to take off the bandage, before bed. She was not allowing it. It was like her badge of courage. And she was so gas-y all night long! Pretty miserable. Poor babe. We cuddled the night away.

So Tuesday morning, I was trying to get her band aid off. She was playing dead. And Sweetheart wouldn't leave my Mom's side. I think we spend the entire morning, working on crafts. Right there...on the couch. With these two connected to us!

 8. Tuesday Night Dinner. Because we were swamped on Tuesday. Trying to catch up on orders...I decided to take my Mom out to dinner. At Golden Pride. My Mom LOVES their fried chicken. The ribs are ALWAYS amazing!

It had been a rough day at home. I was trying to finish an order, make some stuff for our stash, and work on a birthday present. My Mom was also working on another order. And our 2 fur babes, wouldn't leave our laps.

So when we left the house, a little on the rough side, we figured we wouldn't see a soul! You know, that we knew. Halfway through our yummy meal, our friend from church walks in. What was she thinking, when we saw us? Oh well...dinner was amazing!

 9. Finished Orders. My Mom finished this order, late Tuesday night. And I was getting a little worried, when I couldn't get in touch with the lady. When we got to the Market on Wednesday, I called a few more times. Then figured...oh well!

About 10AM, she came running through the grass. So excited to see her dolls! That ALWAYS puts a smile on my face! To see someone so happy, to get their orders. And to see them, so happy!

The lady was so excited! So was my Mom. She put in quite a few hours. Working on these 3 dolls. And we also got a few more orders, from the same lady. Win-win-win!

10. Sweetheart Snuggles. when we got home Wednesday, our dogs were waiting for us. We'd left the house around 6AM. And didn't return until almost 6PM. It was a looong day! Growers' Market, lunch, and wondering around Hobby Lobby. You know...a typical Wednesday.

But when we walked through the door, this sweet face was ready for cuddles. That doesn't come often. So while my Mom was watching the news and Belle was exploring the yard...we snuggled.

This girl can be so loving. And shows such promise. At times. So you have to enjoy it, while it lasts. I really do love her. And I know, it's not her fault. You know, that she has issues. Just know, when you rescue a pup...they have a history. And you just have to love them, through all their problems.

11. My Shotgun Rider. Thursday morning, was s super gloomy day! We all slept in late. And I wasn't in the mood, to cook. I know. What is wrong with the world? So I took Belle on a "Bye-bye."

She just LOVES being in the car. And she was enjoying her new clothes. Not to mention, she was finally feeling better. We played a little Bruno Mars, cruised over the bridge, and picked up breakfast and coffee for my Momma.

Total bonus...was the gift card that I used. Am I the only one that enjoys a good giftcard? Breakfast on my friends!

12. Thursday Night Birthday Parties. My little cousin turned 2 this week. And her birthday party was last night. I mean, how cute is she! I might not have been able to finish her birthday present in time. But I could give up Grey's Anatomy for the night.

She really is the cutest thing. And I do enjoy a birthday party. The food is always delish! And you get to have sweets. A total bonus, is that it is on Thursday evening. You know, our weekends are already crazy! So to spread out the parties...is always a win! Happy Birthday Olivia!

Let's not forget the good chats. You know, when you see people...that you haven't seen in forever! I always enjoy catching up with friends and family. Grey's will just have to wait until today. Total bonus...I was home by 8Pm. In my PJs, with a full belly!

13. Party Decorations. Shall we chat about decorations? My cousin always has the cutest decorations! Her parties are so cute. I mean, did you see Olivia's cute outfit? Yeah, I about died when I saw the pics on Facebook.

But her party, just had me thinking. About our upcoming Tea Party Fundraiser. T minus 4 months. I LOVED the look of her decorations. And it's the direction I was already leaning in.

But the sweet treats...they were so yummy! I wonder where she got her cookies, cupcakes, and cake? Yum! And the Rise Krispie treats, weren't too sweet. LOVED that! So much inspiration. I might have also said...I wanted a birthday party this year. :)

14. Doggie Birthday Parties. Yup, you read that right. Miss Belle is turning 2...on Saturday. Which means, we must party! I always think, I should invite people. You know, I go to a million kids' parties. Why not? Include a little note...with her favorite food, treats, and doggie size. 

But I haven't been brave enough. And I wanted something simple. So late last night, I went to Wal-Mart. I was sad, not to really find a big selection of items. I was looking forward to a Barn Animal Party. But they didn't have the supplies. Oh well...

I think Belle will just enjoy the food, treats, and toys. What else can a dog ask for? Bonus...the cupcakes go with her outfit. Yes, you read that right! My dog has a birthday outfit. And a hat! :)

15. Pray For Las Vegas. Sunday Night, my heart sank. Just to hear all the sad news. I've traveled there so much! Performing and such. It just killed my heart. Please keep all of those innocent people in your prayers. It's going to be a long recovery. Pray for the lives lost. And the ones, that will have to carry this night...with them forever.

Folks, I've got to get going. So much to do today. Baking, party planning, wrapping presents, finishing presents, and getting ready for 2 Markets this weekend. I hope you had a GREAT week. And an even better weekend! Happy Friday!

XOXO,
Desiree

Friday Favorites

Happy Friday! Can't believe it's already that time again. Is it me, or did this week just fly by? We had a jam packed week. So many things to do...and literally, so little time to do it all!

So I'm linking up with Andrea, for this week's Friday Favorites. Most of which, revolve around going to the State Fair. Which is ALWAYS a favorite of my family!

 1. Fall Hats! The temps, are slowly coming down. The mornings are crisp. And I know...Fall is just around the corner! So I've been working on hats for our shop. It's something I hadn't done in a while. And we were in desperate need, of cute hats. Animals hats are one of our biggest sellers.

But more specific, I've been in love with the Fall hats. I've made pumpkins, apples, and this little candy corn. I have plans for witches, Frankenstein, ghost, spiders, and turkeys!

Yup, they are just fun. And all week, I've been making beanies. I'm hoping to sit down today, and sew on their little faces. They are absolutely precious! Last week, I made about 10. This week, I should have another 10. 

 2. Mason Jar Flowers! Our Growers' Market neighbors came back this week. It was so nice to see them. Tita and her mom are the sweetest. And they make the most precious flower arrangements. I swear, if I ever get married...or have a Baby Shower, I'm using Mason Jar Flowers. :)

My Momma and I were talking. About how close we all get. At the Market. We really do become, a little family. And it truly is, one of the best things! When you don't see each other...you really do miss one another.

What are we going to do when the season ends? I say this, knowing we have just over a month left. Essentially, we've spent the last 5 months with everyone. It's going to make for a long "Off Season."

 3. Avalos Wedding. My cousins have been married for a handful of years. And on Saturday, they were married by the Church. We missed the ceremony, because we were at the Growers' Market. And because the wedding was about a 30 minute drive. The reception, followed. In a neighboring town, like 4 hours later.

Due to my Momma's health, we decided to stay in town. Until the dinner. Which worked out well. My Momma wasn't feeling too great that day. And maybe not everyone understood...it was just what we needed to do.

I took a bunch of pictures. And videos. So did one of my cousins. But I wasn't able to grab one off of Facebook or Instagram. Isn't that crazy? So I found this picture. From a few years back...during the Dia de los Muertos Parade. 

 4. Tin Lizzies of Albuquerque. We went to the State Fair on Sunday. It was one of those "touch and go" kind of days. While we didn't stay at the wedding really late, the night before, we were exhausted! And ended up sleeping until just after 9AM. There was a mad dash, to shower and get to Church.

Then we weren't sure what we were going to do. Originally we had planned for a day at the Fair. But my Momma was tired. So we relaxed at home. Until my Mom realized our Car Club was at the Fair. We made a mad dash, and managed to get there...about an hour before they left. It was really nice to catch up with everyone. To see the cars. And the smiling faces.

My Mom and I are always wanting to become more involved in our Car Club. But there just doesn't seem to be enough time. Hopefully, when the Growers' Market Season ends...we'll make some time. I'm ready for some more driving lessons!

 5. Leather Art. After we left the Tin Lizzies, we decided to walk around. To make it easier for my Momma, I took the wheelchair. So she could just enjoy herself. We headed to the Hobby Building. One of her favorites! And we probably spent, about 2 hours in there!

We looked at so many things. Got invited to join our local Crochet Guild. Looked at Coin Collections, like my Dad's. My Mom was interested in some beautiful furniture, that had been handmade. And then, I turned around and saw this piece.

Gorgeous! Made all out of leather. I'm still not sure, why it didn't win a ribbon. Because it really was beautiful. All the counties, had some sort of picture. Something relative, to the county. Loved it!

 6.  Asbury Pie! And in true fashion of my family...there was pie! Asbury pie to be exact! It has become a "Family Tradition" of sorts. My parents, started going to the Asbury Cafe, when they first started dating. They would share a piece of pie and ice cream.

From then on, every year that we've gone to the Fair, we get pie. Pie and ice cream! Yum! This year, I got a piece of raspberry peach. It was delicious! And it was nice, to sit and chat with my Momma. Eating our pie. Watching all the people walk around.

Most of all, thinking of my Dad. We both still miss him...so very much! And it's little things like this, that make our hearts sing. When you can remember him, being so happy! We finished our day...listening to music in the Spanish Village. Our friends to be exact. Laughing at all the crazy people. And 5 hours later, we headed home!

 7. That Face! Oh my goodness! This pup, makes her Momma's heart sing! Earlier this week, we were sitting on the couch. And she was just looking up at me. All innocent. Wanting some love and attention.

She LOVES to be read to. And for me to talk to her. Even sing to her. The whole time, that little head of hers...moves back and forth. Like a toy! And my heart melts! Who couldn't love this precious babe!

I've been questioning myself...why I didn't get 2. You know, when I got Belle. But I do plan, on getting another puppy like her...later this Fall. Another girl. I just have to dig out the phone number. And hope the people still have pups!

 8. Fall Magazines. I started getting Fall magazines this week. What a happy surprise, in the mailbox! As much as I LOVE Spring...it's my favorite time of year, I just adore Fall!

Something about the smells, the change of weather, the comfort. When the green chili starts roasting, I start smiling. I know the seasons are about to change! I start thinking of Fall decor. Yummy candles. All the things I can bake. The soups. And the sweaters!

Can you tell how excited I am? Oh, and my 2 favorite holidays are in Fall. Halloween and Thanksgiving! Y'all, I'm trying to contain myself! I don't want my Mom to freak out, when I drag out all the Fall decorations. And the one morning, when she wakes up to 10 candles burning. Because I might have already come home, with some mums!

 9. Lunch Dates with my Momma. It's been a while, since my Mom and I have been to the Casino. For lunch. And we were thinking about it last week. So we made a plan. And although the week had been busy, we were sticking to our plans. Because we thought, we were going to have a crazier week. A friend of ours, was supposed to go out of town. And we were going to help his girls, sell his produce all week. Those plans changed...more on that later.

On Tuesday, we decided to go have some lunch. I charged up all my electronics. And decided I get some work done. While my Momma gambled a bit. She had some free play. Then we sat down, to a late lunch.

Yum! That's all I can say. From the salad and soup...to the prime rib. It was all so good! We ate incredibly slow. And just enjoyed it. Talking. Really catching up. Although we live together...and spend so much time together, sometimes we just don't get to really talk.

Tuesday, we did just that. We went over schedules. Shows we'll be doing this Holiday Season. We talked about her going to Washington DC. Made plans for Thanksgiving...that just might include a stay at a hotel. And dinner already cooked. Because really, who wants to cook for 2?

We talked about our pups, family, and plans for the winter. It was just nice, to chat. We even looked up some projects, that we want to tackle. And I may have mentioned, a Part-Time job. I was supposed to be working for another friend this week, but that didn't work out. And I'm thinking a night time job, would be a good fit.

10. Wise Words. And like every other time, we got Fortune Cookies. And this was my fortune. Wise words, don't you think? My Mom's wasn't quite so good. 

I wish I could scream this, from the rooftops. Maybe print it on T-shirts. At least I could post it on Instagram and the 'ol blog. But really, these are words to live by.

And I wish some people, would just get it. Give. Just a little. Everyone, has something to give. And in light, of the recent hurricanes and earthquake...we should see the need for giving.

11. What's in Your Bag? These posts are truly my favorite! Maybe I'm just nosy as heck! But I LOVE to read these kind of posts. Watching Youtube videos, of the same subject...just might be my favorite thing ever!

In case you missed my post, you can find it here. And you can find the link up here. I might have spend, 2 hours reading a bunch of new blogs. And looking into people's bags. No lie!

Then I might have spent another 2 hours, watching YouTube videos. Am I the only one? I think I just might be nosy.

12. Jamaica Tea. This just might be my favorite...from the week! Might as well, put the heart eyed emoji over my face. That is how I feel about Jamaica tea. Also known as, hibiscus tea.

When I went to college, I was introduced to it. My teacher/friend/away from home Dad would bring me a cup. Once a week. By the end of my freshmen year, I was addicted to this stuff!

So before breaking for the Summer, he gave me a bag. By the end of June, I was calling him. To find out, where I could buy it. Mind you, we were probably on day 30...of triple digit weather! And I had no AC. 

I drank it all the time. And G, got me so spoiled! I add nothing to it. It needs, absolutely, nothing in it. I tried it once, with honey. But honestly, prefer it plain. No sugar. Nothing.

When I moved back to my hometown, I might have brought 5 bags. And as my stock, started to diminish, I went looking for it. May have called, 5 of my friends from Mexico. A handful of musicians. And about 10 Mexican Grocery stores. But I found it!

And honestly, never looked back. Until, recently. When I went to buy some more. That store, about a year ago...changed names. And now, I can't find it. I happened to mention it to my friend Tino. Who makes aguas frescas.

The Watermelon Hibiscus, just happens to be my favorite. And he told me to try a particular store. This was on Saturday. When he told us, he'd be out of town for a week. And could we help out his girls, at their various stands. Sure. We made plans. And told him to have fun, in Vegas. 

So Wednesday, when we pulled into the VA, and saw Tino...we were shocked! His plans changed. And he wasn't going on his trip. Good and bad. I felt bad, because he was looking forward to his trip. But good, because we would get to hangout all week.

Bonus, this bag of Jamaica tea! I might have skipped to my car. And the moment we got home, made a big 'ol cup. That was after lunch, with Tino, his girls, and my Momma. They really feel like family. I'm so grateful to God, that he sent these amazing people, into our lives! 

13. Gold Jewelry. I don't wear a lot of gold jewelry. Who the heck are we kidding, I don't wear a lot of jewelry anymore. There was once a time, when I cared about such things. You know, full face of makeup. Hair perfectly straight, with the slightest of curl, at the bottom. My clothes, were well thought out. I ALWAYS wore high heels. And jewelry.

Then my Dad got sick. And I became a caregiver. And my priorities changed. Wednesday morning, I just felt like putting a little extra...into my appearance. Earrings and ring. A nicer top than usual. Jeans...because I live in leggings and sweatpants! My favorite boots. Heck, I even shocked myself! Lipstick and mascara. Eyelashes curled, and everything!

It was just a nice change of pace. Honestly, I've been wearing a little bit more makeup this week. But it's felt nice. I may have also, straightened my hair twice. In one week! I know, it's probably going to snow. But maybe, that old spark is coming back...

14. Asian Salad. On Wednesday, I wasn't feeling the best. I didn't sleep the entire night before. And I really, was thinking of staying home from the Growers' Market. But I had told Tino, I'd help at his stand. He was supposed to be leaving on his trip. 

Once we got to the Market, and realized he would be there all day...all I could think of, was a nap. I wasn't feeling good. My back hurt. I'd had about 30 minutes of sleep. And I hadn't eaten a thing! It was going to be a long day!

And although I enjoy the company, of the VA Growers' Market...I wanted to be home. We still managed to have a good time. Briana was there. Which meant, I didn't have to help as much as normal. And the Market was incredibly slow!

So when the mention of going out to lunch started, I silently hoped, they wouldn't notice...if we went home. We packed up. Chatted with friends. Then I got trapped in, and had to wait it out in the car. But when our friends came to invite us to lunch...I couldn't say no.

We went out, to Saggio's. First time for us. And honestly, I'm glad we went. After my Hanger, was taken care of...I felt better. And we enjoyed lunch. The portions were HUGE! And since I was in a serious state of Hanger...and pain, I forgot to take pre-meal pictures. Bad blogger here!

My Mom and I, each got a piece of pepperoni mushroom pizza. It was so good! I even managed to get a bubble piece. Those are my favorite! And we split an Asian salad. That was gigantic! But boy 'o boy, it was delish!

After lunch, we headed home. The minute I hit the couch...I was out! I think I slept for about 6 hours. Maybe longer. I was in a food coma, hurting, and way past exhausted. When I woke up, my Mom was asleep. The pups were with her. And I was starving. I hit the fridge, and found the rest of our salad. And about a third of my pizza. Dinner at 11PM? Yes!

I keep thinking of that salad! In fact, I finished it off for breakfast yesterday. It was that good. And then I took to Google, to look for a good dressing recipe. Because I want to make a big salad for me!

And Saggio's...it was super yummy! I keep thinking to myself, when can we go back. I want to try another salad. I guess that is what happens, when you go to college in another city. You don't know about all these places. 

15. Strawberry Bars. Heck ya! Give them all to me. I used to eat these. A while back. And then, I sort of forgot about them. It was one of those things, I used to buy for my Dad. He really enjoyed them.

The other night, I was watching a YouTube video...where they mentioned these strawberry bars. So I bought some. They sat in the freezer, for over a week. And yesterday, while I was putting our freezer packs, in the freezer...I saw them. I literally, stopped everything. To sit down and have one.

Oh my Heaven! It was so yummy! I might not be able to share...with anyone. While the pups, had a bone. They kept coming over to me. They wanted some. Those crazy dogs! After I ate it. I let them both, take a couple of licks...of the stick. These are just too good to share!

That's it for this week. We have a busy day ahead. Finishing up some orders for tomorrow. And some other items, we have planned. Maybe an afternoon at the Fair. And tomorrow...we have the Downtown Grower's Market. Maybe a Crochet Guild meeting. 

Sunday...another afternoon at the Fair. Since we didn't go last night. I managed to buy a pack of tickets...in June. 4 for $12? And they give you 2 more, for free. To be honest, I almost sold them. Because I was supposed to work at a booth, with some friends. At the Fair! It didn't work out...and it might be a good thing. My Mom gets to enjoy some more time at the Fair. Happy Friday!

XOXO,

Desiree 

To All Their Mommas

I'm in my mid thirties. An Aries. MDRD by day. Musician by night. Turned professional crafter. LOVE to decorate for every holiday. Bake a million things a week, and then deliver them to family, friends, and neighbors.

I'm 30 something, and have never brought a man home. To meet my family. My friends, became my family, when I needed them most! I'm independent. And stubborn. I'm not dating. And have no kids.

I have a home. Take care of my Momma. And our 2 pups. I'm also the ONLY female...between my parents' friends. Friends who all have sons. Who MOSTLY don't like their daughters-in-law. And constantly, want me to be their next daughter-in-law.

Let me tell you, as much as you know about me...you don't know the REAL ME. I know that most of these wonderful ladies, have known me at least 20 years. If not, my ENTIRE life. But you still don't know ME. The real person inside. That has dreamt of babes, since I was 4 years old. Who cries herself to sleep, because I miss my Daddy that much. And the woman who panics, because her Momma gets an unexpected pain.

I thought maybe, YOU needed this letter. You know, before you kick out your current DIL. And start planning for your son and I to get hitched. And have a million babes. Because this quiet girl...she's got a TON of baggage!



Dear Mommas,

Yes, I'm 30 something or another. You've never seen me bring home a boyfriend. Or heard me talk of one. But that doesn't mean, I don't have a history. That there hasn't been a gentleman or two...or however many, that hasn't stolen this girl's heart. With a deep southern drawl, heavy accent, blue eyes, loving spirit, or gentle heart.

My heart has done flips. And pitter patters. I've dreamt of a house full of the cutest blue eyed babes. I have looked like that heart eyed emoji...more than once. I've also had a house completely full, of 4 and unders. Playing games, decorating cupcakes, and dressed head to toe...in princess outfits. Because I'm the coolest Nana, Tia, and T-Lo around!

I'm much more, than the quiet and polite lady, that you see. Much more, than the gal that sends you cards for holidays and birthdays, shows up with pineapple upside down cake, or lends a hand...when you least expect it. Those are all things, that bring me joy. But it's the tiniest part, of who I am.

5 minutes before any event...I'm usually the last person you want to see. Short. Sometimes yelling. Running around in my underwear. A sea of clothes, on the floor. Trying to find the car keys. Probably herding 2 pups into the kitchen, dropping dog treats, 1 shoe on, trying to find my Mom's cane, and probably trying to wrap up some sort of dessert. Yes, I probably need a lesson in patience. And time management. And I'm probably a hot and sweaty mess!

I own too much makeup. Especially since I REFUSE only wear it to go to a funeral, wedding, and maybe out to a special dinner. Let's not talk about my nail polish collection. And how every single time, I open a drawer, at least 10 bottles come crashing out. Or the weirdness...that is my hair!

Surprise me with a visit? I'm probably in some sort of workout clothes. Or oversized sweats. With maybe a 25% chance, that I actually went on a walk that day. If you're real lucky, I'm in my PJs. Because what is better than PJs. I'm not sure, whether it is day 1, 2, or 3 in the same PJs. Going to daily Mass, has improved this somewhat. But who are we kidding.? I'm usually home by 7:30AM...and back in those PJs.

I'm less likely to have $20 in my purse to lend you. And 99.9% sure, you'll instead find yarn and a crochet hook. Because I'm impossibly behind on my orders. Yes, I'm a college educated woman. With hundreds of thousands of dollars, worth of degrees. And I haven't worked full time, in so many years...I can't remember. Because my family comes first! And I've been a full time caregiver, for 7 years. Oh, and I'm ALMOST 100% certain, that I'll have a piece of dark chocolate in that purse.

Speaking of families, I pray that your son, is close to his siblings. I know he comes from a good family...because I know you. But I don't know about his relationships, with his siblings. I say this, because mine suck! Bad! Not all my fault. It's just what happens in a blended family. That didn't blend well. And I want to have some good relationships in my life. I want my kiddos, to have aunts and uncles...that I can trust. Who will love my kiddos, unconditionally.

A total bonus, if your son takes my Momma out. Like once a month. Nothing fancy. Maybe to lunch. Or to the Natural History Museum. Something. Get to know her. Love her, like she's their momma. Make her feel included. I'm all she's got.

Know that I will try my hardest, to split holidays. Between our families. But truth be known...there is no negotiating on Christmas Eve. From 4-7PM...we will be at the cemetery. Decorating graves. Visiting my Daddy. It's what we do. And it will NOT change. We also don't open presents, until Christmas morning. After church...and breakfast. Who am I kidding...we're lucky to open Christmas presents before New Year's Day. It's ALWAYS been this way in my family!

I'm hard headed. Set in my ways. I don't trust people. I find it hard to let people in. I don't communicate well. I almost always check messages (text, FB, emails) 2 months too late. But if your someone special, I always try my best to call you. Or send you something in the mail. Speaking of mail, I LOVE to get a handwritten card or note...even a cute picture from a kiddo.

I like to spend lazy Sundays, reading books. Rainy nights, on the porch. Doing nothing. But watching the rain fall. And early mornings, alone with my Bible. Church is also a MUST! Every single Sunday. No questions asked. God is #1 in my life. And I pray every single day, to find a man, who has put God in that #1 spot too!

If your son doesn't like dogs, we probably won't like each other. I'm a Momma, to one very crazy girl. Who has to suck her Momma's thumb, like a bottle. And reads/watches Little Critter Go To Bed on my iPad. Just so she can sleep. Yes, she sleeps with me. And there is also a good chance, my Mom's crazy dog is sleeping with me too!

My dog, is like a baby. She has a better wardrobe, than most people I know. Gets multiple baths a week. Goes on car rides. Jams to Bruno Mars. Wakes me up, with puppy kisses. And steals everyone's heart. She has better insurance than I have. And will most likely, become a big sister, before 2018.

Yes, I will cook for your son, do his laundry, and clean the house. I will change dirty diapers...but ONLY those of my own babes! Speaking of my babes...they will have cloth diapers and be breast fed. When they need baby food...I will make that too. I've had lots of practice with my Goddaughters!

I know you stalk my Instagram feed, Twitter page, and Facebook. And you comment about the food I make. But what you don't know is, when I'm tired...or it's too hot...we eat cereal. Or Little Cesar's pizza. I'm keeping it real here. But you can ALWAYS count on us having freshly baked cakes. And dog treats!

I also do my laundry at 2AM. Because I can't sleep. And it's cheaper. I like to hang my clothes on a clothesline. And do our dishes by hand. I don't like to share the remote. Or iron clothes. And I find it most comfortable, to sleep on the floor. Also, have you ever realized, I never use the restroom around you? I have a phobia about that. Only at home, and I don't like to share a bathroom. I know, I have problems! But you need to know these things.

I'm also crazy, when it comes to OCD. Either everything has it's place, or it's total chaos. I like to clean people's refrigerators...and closets. Nothing gives me more pleasure, than a well stocked pantry and fridge. That are organized. Oh, and on a regular I buy onions, garlic, cilantro, persimmons, mushrooms, broccoli rabe, and leeks. And I cook with them! If you're eating my food, these things are in the dishes I make!

But if your son is looking for anything fried...like chicken, sopapillas, or fries...I don't do it. I'm scared to death, of hot oil. I can't fry an egg, if my life depended on it! I also don't make posole, menudo, pig's feet, sheep's brain, or tamales. So you better be on speed dial. I don't eat them. And I don't make them.

I drive too fast. I've been told, my driving is a mix of Texas and Mexico. I get road rage. All the time! And HATE for people to mess with the radio. But I have music ADD in the car. I am also known for having crazy dance parties in my car! And NEVER wear my seat belt while driving. I get carsick, when anyone else drives. I also get paranoid. If I could, I'd wear 10 seat belts...when anyone else is driving.

When it comes to telling people no, I don't know how to do it. And get suckered into so much. That my calendar is always overflowing. With more things, than you can comfortably do. In reality, most weekends I wish I could stay home in bed. And not feel guilty.

Oh, and your son better love the Growers' Market. I spend so much time loading, unloading, setting up, tearing down, and making things for the Market. By the time I unload our stuff at 6:35AM, I'm sweating like a 500 lb man! And I tell my Mom, the first man to do this willingly, I will marry. It's the part of the Market Life, that I HATE!

I will be doing this, and other fundraising, for the rest of my life. No doubt about that. I take our foundation seriously. Although, there are some days, when I just want to ignore it. But I know it's important. So much of my day, is consumed with LFB.

Did I mention, I'm kinda crazy? The whole, "Watch out for the quiet ones..." well you may not know that side of me. Nor does my family. But I am kinda, well nuts. Ask my friends. I've been known to dance on bails of hay, because they were there. Or walk on top of farm fences. Pretend I was married...because my friend needed me to. To literally "Seal a Deal," he was making for his business. The people he was doing business with, needed him to be married. I don't know all the details of that deal. But it was worth millions. And I needed to fly across the country, multiply times. Going to crazy dinners, wearing a 5 million dollar ring. Talk about nuts!

Girls' Nights with my friends...I'm just glad I'm the "photographer" of the group. And no one has that documented. Because I don't know what I'd say. Vegas for us...was definitely about work. But we took the whole "Work hard, play harder" to heart. There have been crazy nights of dancing, hilarious game nights, and just wild and crazy times...that we can't talk about.

Even if my guys friends...we've had plenty of Poker Nights. That I'd like to relive. But NEVER talk about. The Crazy Lady comes out to play! But it's all in good fun! So is the crazy table top dancing Mariachi...that only comes out to play...when my friends are around. ;)

I can't explain why I own so many bustiers. Or crazy lingerie. How I once worked at Hooters. Or the crazy costumes I once wore, when we performed. And now, I won't wear shorts in public. Forget a bathing suit! Or anything that is remotely tight fitting. Or might show too much skin. I'm just not comfortable like that.

I'm quite short tempered. Hot headed. Short of patience. Strong willed. Get blinded by my goals. Have big dreams. And like alone time. I don't depend on others. Or ask for help. Too many people, give me anxiety. To be brutally honest, I think at times...I could live a pretty happy life, not actually seeing people.

When I think about kids, it makes me all warm and fuzzy  inside. Unlike most women, I think it's a good thing, that your son has some littles. Or even teenagers. But I also want some babes of my own. I once wanted 12 kids. But these days, I'd be happy with 2. I have names picked out...but I won't tell you either!

My heart sings, when I see a man playing sports with his kiddos. I think it would be amazing to see your son, coaching his littles in some sort of team sport. Or dancing away, with his daughter. When I was a musician, that was the thing I enjoyed the most. Seeing a dad making a complete fool out of himself, to dance with his daughter. And to make her smile!

And music, definitely the center of my life. So I guess your son has to love that too! Like spending the evening in Old Town, listening to music. Or going to see Mariachis. Or concerts. Also, having our littles learn some sort of music.

Did I mention? I don't trust people. And want to be home, with my babes until they go to school. I want to be THAT parent, who volunteers. And makes Pinterest worthy snacks and treats. I want my kids, to have all the opportunities that I had. And to be able to follow their dreams.

I'm working on a lot of my issues. Turning to God. Giving him my struggles and worries. Praying on so many things. But I'm not perfect! Never have been. Never will be. I may have run into the ocean, in a MOH dress. After my friends' Disney wedding. Because my other friend proposed to me. At the time, drowning seemed like the best option...

I also find myself, pouring over orphaned baby pics. Thinking I might have to do this alone. And somewhere out there, is a babe that needs a momma. I also question myself daily. About the direction my life is taking. And if I'll ever go back to medicine. Because I'm not sure, my heart is in it anymore.

Even with all this, my heart is open. To all things that are possible. It might be your son. And it might not. I'm one woman. And there are quite a few of your sons. I pray hard every single day. And know, somewhere out there...my husband is doing life. That one day, we'll find each other. And his current adventures...he'll share them with me. As part of his history.

And I pray to God, that he makes me a better woman. Teaches me, the things I need to learn. Shows me, how to live a better life. And loves me, despite my faults. It's the only way really. To be together, making each other better people.

Who knows what the future holds for me. But don't think for one minute, that I'm perfect. Or that your son's life will automatically change...because I'm in it. As much life as we've lived together...you've seen a lot! But it's probably only been 10% of what makes me tick. So let's pray together. And see what happens.

XOXO,
Desiree